Every January, it’s tempting to set big, sweeping resolutions—drink more water, hit 10,000 steps a day, exercise every morning. And every year, so many of those promises fall away after a few weeks. Sound familiar? Instead of setting ourselves up for frustration, what if we focused on what already brings us joy and made space for more of it?

A few years ago, I decided to shift my approach. Instead of chasing after habits that never seemed to stick, I started reflecting on what truly made me feel good in the past year. Looking through photos on my phone, I noticed the moments that stood out: a solo weekend trip that refreshed my spirit, monthly dinners with my girlfriends that left me glowing, and the thrill of planning my next travel adventure. These weren’t resolutions; they were experiences that brought real happiness. So, instead of making a list of things to change, I started making a list of things to keep.

This is your invitation to do the same. Grab a cozy blanket, pour yourself a warm drink, and take a moment to reflect. Think about what made you feel truly content over the past year, and let that guide you into the months ahead:

💛 What small rituals or routines brought you joy? Maybe it’s reading before bed, weekend walks, or stretching in the morning—things that don’t need to be reinvented, just appreciated.

💛 What experiences filled your cup? Was it a solo getaway, meaningful conversations over dinner, or the excitement of planning a trip? How can you make more room for these moments?

💛 What made you feel accomplished? It doesn’t have to be a big milestone—maybe you stayed consistent with a habit, tackled a challenge, or made time for yourself in a way that felt good.

💛 Were there any unexpected joys? Sometimes the best moments come as surprises—what little things added unexpected happiness to your days?

💛 What do you want to carry forward? Instead of thinking about what to change, what can you continue nurturing that already makes your life feel rich and full?

By focusing on the things that already make you feel good, you’re not chasing an entirely “new you”—you’re celebrating the parts of yourself that are already thriving. So, here’s to a year of more cozy spaces, laughter-filled dinners, and adventures that fill your heart. Let’s make this chapter one that truly feels like home.